1986 Me
 

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I put myself on a 36 hour “no thinking about or doing anything related to work” restriction this weekend, so instead of playing the role of work-a-holic, I’m spending my time browsing through Facebook and MySpace.

I do this every once in a while, and there have been a lot of people from my childhood who have recently joined at those sites (welcome to Technology everyone). Most of my childhood friends from Joplin have trouble placing me because I moved away in 1989 and didn’t graduate with them.

I’ve discovered that most of my childhood friends and I still have a lot in common… taste in music, movies and books… political beliefs… and an overwhelming number of them have turned out to be gay.

I find this fascinating to me, in that I haven’t spoken to these old friends in 20 years or more. And when we were growing up, we certainly didn’t discuss being gay, or even know that we were gay… we were kids! Yet, we managed to somehow find and recognize this “quality” in each other before we were even able to name it and recognize it in ourselves.

Of course looking at this school photo of me from 6th grade, it seems hard for me to understand how I, or they, didn’t know all along.

I now present to you: Jester in 1986.

Note the gigantor glasses and super stylish rayon shirt.

Note the gigantor glasses and super stylish rayon shirt.

 
20 Responses to “1986 Me”
 

What do you expect? You infected them all with Teh Gay!

:-)

Dave2 wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 7:47 pm

 
 

That is fricking awesome! I love the shirt - the only thing that could’ve been better about the glasses is if they were red. :)
Still, you can see how handsome you were going to become. Honestly.

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Sybil Law wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 7:51 pm

 
 

oh my dog, you were fucking cute! seriously cute. although that shirt is one hell of a statement…

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hello haha narf wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 8:04 pm

 
 

Please tell me you still have those glasses.

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Iron Fist wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 8:06 pm

 
 

They should have been able to tell just by your hair. No straight guy has hair that cool in 6th grade.

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SJ wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 8:12 pm

 
 

Dave2 - You should be good and indoctrinated by now, then.

Sybil - The red glasses came about the next year. I’m not kidding, either. I did have them in red.

hello - What statement would that be? “Gaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyeeeeeeee?”

Iron Fist - They are no doubt in a box in my mom and dad’s garage.

SJ - My favorite aunt is a hair stylist. I always had cool hair. If only she had dressed me instead of being left to my own devices…

jester wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 8:19 pm

 
 

Seriously? You really had them in red?! You are my new hero!
Also, I just thought of this: some guy in 4th grade always played with us girls at recess. We all completely knew he was gay, but it was never an issue. I am not even sure HE knew he was gay, but we sure as hell did- it was just obvious, somehow. And I don’t recall him ever having those great glasses or that snazzy shirt, but he DID have some cool hairstyles, even then.
Hmm….
:D
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Sybil Law wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 8:23 pm

 
 

I swear I saw you wearing that shirt a few weeks ago… who are you foolin?

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tori wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 9:36 pm

 
 

Sybil Law - I had them in red and in brown. I didn’t hang out with girls in 4th grade, I hung out with the teachers. I’m a dork.

Tori - What can I say, everything old is new again…

jester wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 9:59 pm

 
 

Same smart-ass smirk instead of a smile, too, right?

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Avitable wrote on October 26th, 2008 at 10:33 pm

 
 

And the necklaces. Don’t forget about the necklaces.

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Finn wrote on October 27th, 2008 at 7:58 am

 
 

Ha, that is SOME shirt!

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Karl wrote on October 27th, 2008 at 9:00 am

 
 

I saw that picture in that back bedroom a long time ago and was going to tease you about it but uh, I have some that are way worse!

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Hilly wrote on October 27th, 2008 at 1:44 pm

 
 

awwww such a cute kid pic

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Neurotic Mom wrote on October 28th, 2008 at 8:34 pm

 
 

You’re cuter now, but you were way cute then too!

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Winter wrote on October 28th, 2008 at 9:48 pm

 
 

YAY for weekend sabaticals.

Um…did you borrow that shirt from the Miami Vice store? Ok I kid, and bow to your bravery for posting it. I can’t imagine posting my 6th grade pic. The HORROR!!

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Grandy wrote on October 29th, 2008 at 9:51 am

 
 

http://news.yahoo.com/s/time/20081031/us_time/agaymafia;_ylt=Ao2Pyq6fy91CrOfJB8_TSoas0NUE

Unrelated to this post but I thought you’d like the article… 7 people you can be proud of.

Now related to this post. I may be wrong but I think maybe you were born straight and this shirt is what made you switch teams ;)
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wavemancali wrote on October 31st, 2008 at 12:37 pm

 
 

That’s an awesome pic. 1986… that was my 3 year of college.

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martymankins wrote on November 2nd, 2008 at 6:35 am

 
 

You are so much cuter now…

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ginamonster wrote on November 2nd, 2008 at 3:13 pm

 
 

Avitable - that smart ass smirk is my signature!

Finn - Right. I might still have that gold eagle around here somewhere. *gag*

Karl - It’s no g-string.

Hilly - Please post them.

Neurotic Mom - Cute!? Are you on a color monitor?

Winter - I hardly recognize myself.

Grandy - I challenge you to find a 6th grade photo and post it.

Wavemancali - thanks for the article. And try not to stare directly into that shirt… there’s no telling what effect it will have.

Martymankins - I’ll bet you weren’t wearing shirts that cool in college.

ginamonster - and that shirt wouldn’t fit my left foot these days…

jester wrote on November 2nd, 2008 at 10:34 pm

 

Say something already!